I am listening to mushy-mushy love songs because romantics soothe me when I am low(well ice creams, some1 singing 4 me and funny conversations cheer me up too……and at times even Chinese food……..oh oh I am drifting from the topic here…..lets get back)
So I am listening to a beautiful romantic song when suddenly I start thinking about the logic behind love (I do that a lot) WHY IS LOVE SO COMPLICATED??? I mean either you have too many options or you have none……either you have about 2-3 guys falling for you or you have no one when you need someone…..Well, if you have too many options….then you are stuck with too many questions like…….what if he’s not the right one or what if the other one is better or what if he changes after I choose him……uuuffffff
And If you don’t have an option, then you have questions like why doesn’t anyone like me or is something wrong with me or why am I always unlucky in love……..So you see, both ways….’Complicated’.
Well it doesn’t end here. Just imagine you finally got through the ‘options phase’ and found you the right perfect one……..well…….still ‘complicated’. At the initial stage everything is oh so lovey-dovey……miss you n kiss you’s. But slowly slowly this complication monster spoils up all the romance. Why are you late……..why don’t you understand my feelings….why you always with your friends…..you have no time 4 me…..possessiveness….jealousy…revenge….domination….egoooooooo (should I say more).All these factors replace the miss you and kiss you’s and ultimately what are you left with…….Yeah, that’s right…….Complicated love….. (Oh c’mon, let the romantic love just be…..)
Well I am too complicated myself to find a solution for this and inspite of my used-up brain to figure out this logic……….I am still confused (aarrrghhhhhh…..complexities ..Y do they rule our lives so much????). I did mention in my previous posts that life is an adventure…..I guess complications just add to make it into an exciting one (huh what……I’m sounding complicated myself)
UUffff….I think I am back to where I started…. WHY IS LOVE SO COMPLICATED???
P.S: If someone figures that out…please let me know….lol
Yes.....Love is Complicated.....Thts y....one shouldn't fall in it......just have flings n enjoy......Liked the write-up, had a smile on face while reading it.....cheers
ReplyDeleteNice Article. Im sure everyone must have experienced something like this at some time or the other.
ReplyDeletethis is my opinion
1.> Dont Try too hard for love also Dont ignore it completely. Let it come when it has to.
2.> Wen it Comes. Dont ask Where,when,how,who else, why......u know the drill
3.> Its not about how Perfect he/she is.......Its about you can Accept the Imperfections.